"Fatigue" as a Condition of Indifference of Love: Conclusions of Postmodernism

Relevance. The article examines the indifference to the experience of love. In the postmodern era, staying in the subject is regarded as an inability to independently fill oneself with important resources for life: first of all, it is important to realize oneself, anesthesia is offered by self – sufficiency against love pain, "everything will still have time, love will not run away anywhere." There is a devaluation of love, it acquires a consumer character and is supported by diagnoses as "addiction", which formulates a conclusion about its devaluation. This assumption implies the emergence of "love fatigue" as an expression of a lack or lack of attention to the basic value of a person.

The purpose of the work is to study the causes of "love fatigue" in the context of postmodernity.

Objectives: to determine the causes of "fatigue" in the manifestation of love; to characterize the phenomenon of "love" in postmodern society; to assess the impact of consumer culture on the value and significance of love and partner.

Methodology. The methodological basis of the article is the method of system analysis, which made it possible to discover modern attitudes to human relationships, in particular love, and the theoretical and methodological basis is the research of domestic and foreign philosophers and sociologists studying the problem of feelings in the postmodern era.

Results. In this paper, the concepts of "fatigue" and "love" are considered. Revealed a difference in attitude to the feeling of love in (post)modern society.

Conclusions. Existing norms allow a person to experience life experience, change its form and content, which means that the understanding of feelings and the value of relationships become unattainable for another – the boundaries become invisible. However, if a person develops the will to comprehend the other and accept him as he is, then he will free love from human limits, and therefore will enjoy time next to and development with him.

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